Tuesday, June 30, 2009

Look at our handiwork!


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I mentioned to my dad that I'd like his help building some planter beds for the backyard. He called me this morning to ask if today was good. It was! I got Mom to take the baby, and I went to Home Depot for everything we needed (well, everything but tools, which he was in charge of!). The 2x12 12 foot long redwood boards were really heavy, and I foolishly hefted them onto my cart myself. I did, however, get someone to cut them and help me get them in the car.

Dad came over at about one, and we set about watching the DIY video I'd found and setting up. We cut the support posts to size (okay, Dad did that), measured where the holes should go (me!), drilled all the holes (Dad), went back to Home Depot for the correct size carriage bolts (me), and then assembled them and pushed them into place.

That photo is deceiving, by the way. It looks like the backyard is shaded, but it wasn't this afternoon, and we did most of this in 90 degree heat in the sunshine.

I have big, big plans. A 7x15 patch of flagstone, a lawn to rip out, a load of decomposed granite to lay down, 64 cubic feet of potting soil to put in, plants to plant, soaker hoses to place, and who knows what all! I'm thinking some of this is going to have to be done by other people. But I'm not above paying folks to do my hard labor. I really appreciate Dad doing my hard labor today for free. =)

On another topic, I made fresh peach ice cream the other day. I sampled it when I put it in the freezer, then I had a coffee cup full on another evening. I saw Sweetie eating some out of the Tupperware the other night, and noted that he seemed to be enjoying it (as he sat and ate it for quite a while). But when I went to get it out again, before I could even get the lid off, Sweetie started yelling "There wasn't much left when I got it! I don't know what happened to it! I didn't eat all that!" I looked at what was left, and it was about another coffee cup full. I had originally made a whole quart. So the good news is that he liked it! The other good news is that now I have an excuse to make more with more fresh, local, seasonal fruit. Or maybe chocolate... Mmmm, I love ice cream.

Sunday, June 28, 2009

Weather

It was 108 today.

Punk rock points

Plus: Baby can now say "tattoo" and identify tattoos.

Minus: Baby pulls at Daddy's arm saying "tattoo off!"

Friday, June 26, 2009

Just in case you think I'm smoking crack

regarding the talking and stuff, here's a video.

Wednesday, June 24, 2009

She can't be saying that...

Somehow, Zadie has picked up "I see a..." She says "I see a baby," "I see a Mina," and "I see a mama" among other things. I think she thinks "I see a" is all one word, and I can't imagine she knows what it means, but most of the time she uses it appropriately. It's kind of freaking me out.

Much more common these days are two-word sentences, like "mama cook" "baby eat" "baby sit" and "baby cry." Sometimes we also get three words, like "sit on Mommy." She'll be 15 months tomorrow, so I'm pretty impressed with the sentences.

We're also working on "in," "out," "on," off," and "under." She can say the first four, and she knows what all of them mean. Today we put toy sushi in, on, off, out, and under a tupperware bowl. She said "sushi on." Later we put a ball in and out of a duck planter.

We had to give her her first time-out yesterday. She wouldn't leave the fireplace screen alone and knocked it over twice (it's heavy, and I'm afraid she's going to hurt herself). After several times of leading her away, trying to distract her, and telling her it's a no-no, Sweetie said "You're not being a good listener, and if you go back to the fireplace again I'm going to give you a time-out." She went immediately back, and so he took her to her crib, told her she had to stay in for one minute, and we left. One minute later exactly, we went back, he told her he loved her, but she needed to stay away from the fireplace, and he gave her a hug. I think he did a great job at daddying. The one thing I'll probably change is the naughty spot -- some online friends suggested that if we use the crib, she'll associate it with punishment. So I'll go get a carpet square or something.

We're also going to have to figure out something to do regarding the hitting. She hits people in the face, particularly me. We have been holding her hands and showing her how to touch gently, and saying "gentle, gentle" but it really hasn't done any good. Yesterday we saw some neighbors with a little baby, and I held Zadie back the whole time in case she decided to hit the baby. I guess it's time to do some online research. Any suggestions are welcome...

Tuesday, June 23, 2009

After sleeping over ten hours last night

Zadie fell asleep in the car on the way to the farmer's market. She woke up for the market, so we shopped, I fed her fruits (nectarines, pluots, cherries, and strawberries), then tried to put her down for a nap. I tried for an hour, and she was really hyper, so when she said "down!" and rappelled off the bed using the sheets*, I gave up.

Then we went to the paint store, home depot, and grocery shopping. Guess what happened in the grocery store.
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She actually caused quite a stir, with all the checkers and baggers and even some of the bank employees coming to check her out. She kept half-raising her head, then letting it loll to the side again. She didn't even wake up outside.
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She stayed asleep in the car, and I thought about letting her stay in there, but it was really hot, so now she's inside in the crib wailing for me. I'll try laying down with her again now.

*I am totally not kidding.

In no particular order

This is what we do in stores.
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This is what she does on stairs (and she says "step, step, step" while doing it).
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This is her cuteness eating a scone.
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This is the kind of thing you can see in the Portland airport.
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This is what happened to Auntie Maryam's marionberry cheesecake from Sweet Life.
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This is what happens when Uncle Sweetie challenges Jacob to eat a whole serving of wasabi.
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This is Zadie feeding auntie her oatmeal.
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This is some Grandma time.
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This is Zadie saying "whee!" the whole time she was on the carousel.
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This is the fort her cousins made.
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This is the tunnel on the playground at the park where the family played volleyball.
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This is an artsy tunnel shot.
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This is Zadie's bootie in 40 year old Levi jeans.
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This is sleeping in.
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This is what home looks like (and Zadie tried to make Grandma stay by bringing her books and saying "book, book!").
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Friday, June 19, 2009

On grossness


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Just for fun, here's a picture of Zadie with fingers up both nostrils.

The other day, she said "Daddy." He said "what?" She paused, then said "poop."

She has been doing her best to get gum wrappers out of the garbage and eat them.

I found confetti in a poopy diaper.

On the airplane she wanted to nurse. She finished, then started chewing. I investigated and discovered that she'd had Cheerios in her mouth the whole time.

One year olds are fun.

Thursday, June 18, 2009

A few new Eugene pictures

With Grandma.
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Unclue Brucex takes her to look at windchimes.
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Can everybody make some noise?!?!?! (She picked this microphone up and said "la la la.")
Zadie sings "la la la."

Grandpa reads Zadie "Mittens."
Grandpa reads a story

And they call it puppy love

Last night in a fit of extreme cuteness, Zadie decided she loved her cousin Kellen and wanted to lavish attention on him. She gave him two hugs and two kisses, then proceeded to hand-feed him bites of his own food from his dinner plate. He was a good sport about it. We were all dying of the sweetness.

Tuesday, June 16, 2009

And more new pictures.

I guess I did get a few at the park. Here's the fountain.
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With aunt Michelle.
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I probably shouldn't post nakey pictures of the baby on the interwebs, but look at this cheesecake shot! I just love it!
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At dinner.
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Sleeping in this morning.
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Cousin Kelsey reads Zadie a story.
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Ann reads Zadie a story (she's kind of a story whore). She's in a diaper only because she got water and orange juice all over herself.
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Zadie gives Teddy the dog a hug.
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All for now!

Got the internet DTs

Hi all! I would have updated more, but this is the first time we've had internet access.

So long story short...

Airplane ride was fine. She barely made a peep. We bribed her with Cheerios and Puffins. Actually got complimented on how good she was.

Car ride was fine, too -- she fell asleep.
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Got to Eugene on Friday late morning, and met up with my SiL and family. First thing we did was go to Toshi's ramen. Zadie liked it. IMG_0090

Then we hung out at the house most of the evening. Maryam made us all ravioli and my MiL brought a veggie pizza, so we had a feast.

Here are some shots with the family.
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On Saturday we went to breakfast at Brail's, a strange maze of a greasy spoon that had great food. Then we spent time around the house, and in the afternoon Zadie and I got to go shopping with Kelsey and Maryam for Kelsey's graduation dress. While she was running around the store, Zadie found this flower headband and tried to put it on. Auntie put it on for her, and she stood in the mirror and said "hot baby, hot baby!" (Admittedly, she was probably trying to say "hat."
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Auntie Michelle had made her three outfits for her birthday, so she wore one to Kelsey's graduation. She was very tired after the graduation ceremony, and she slept through the whole thing.
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Here's some of the family waiting to leave for the ceremony.
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The next day was Sunday, and we were getting ready for Kelsey's big party. We brought coffee and bread and jam and Grandpa brought some fruit, and we all hung out. Actually, everyone else cleaned and I tried to keep Zadie out of the way. Zadie wore another of Auntie MIchelle's dresses.
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She assisted in making rice.
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And she stayed out of the way by playing ball with cousin Kellen.
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Here she is with Grandpa.
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The party was a success and there was lots of wonderful food. We went to our new vacation rental afterwards, and it's cute and quiet.

On Monday morning we went to the Glenwood for breakfast -- I love their food. I had a Greek omelette. Yum! Zadie had most of Maryam's eggs benedict. Then we went to Smith Family Bookstore and I got a couple Sherman Alexie books. Finally we came back and took a nap. Then it was off to Cafe Yum with Grandpa, Ann, and Jacob. They make these rice bowls with cilantro salsa, beans, a tahini-based sauce, avocado, and cheese, and they're super-good. Then we met up with the whole family at the Rose Garden, a beautiful park with all kinds of different roses in colors I'd never seen. Some were fragrant and some weren't. Then we walked a path along the Willamette River to a cool playground with slides and swings and a miniature town and a fountain and a little wading pool. She had a blast. Unfortunately there are no pictures because while we were in the Rose Garden, Sweetie had the camera, and when we got to the playground and I got the camera back, I was wiped out and just lay in the grass with the family while Auntie Maryam chased Zadie around.

There are pictures of our dinner at Sweet Basil, a Thai restaurant, last night, but I haven't gotten them off the camera yet.

So far today we had breakfast at Metropol, an awesome bakery, and now we're hanging out at Maryam's until later, when we'll go to a wave pool!

Anything else of note? She's been saying lots of small sentences, like "baby eat" and "baby sit." She has not been sleeping well, taking a long time to get to sleep, then waking in the middle of the night and wanting to toss and turn in our bed. If I wait until she falls deeply asleep again (which can take hours), then try to put her down again, she'll stand up within minutes crying and screaming "mama." The one night I let her cry for a while she broke my heart, saying "mama all gone. Mama all gone." I brought her three books and two small toys, but we didn't need to; everyone has been bringing books and toys for her. She's in love with this weird little man doll, and she calls him her baby, kisses him, then throws him downstairs. Nice, huh?

I guess that's about it. I'll update again now that we're officially online!

Here she is in our vacation rental in Daddy's hat.
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Sunday, June 07, 2009

Super-fun Saturday

Well, I read the paper and had my coffee and fed the baby a couple times, then handed her off to Sweetie so Monkeygirl and I could go to the spa!

They start you out with a warm foot soak and a warm wrap thing on your neck, and I had an orange-jasmine tea. Then some of the spa ladies come in and do a "foot rescue." This consists of a foot and lower leg massage and a paraffin dip. Usually the heat doesn't bother me, but this time it was a little burn-y on my toes. Still nice, though. Then they lead you off to your hour massage. The CMT asked if there was anything she should know, and I said "Well, I tend to carry stress in my upper back adn shoulders." Apparently, that was an understatement, because whereas they usually spend time massaging your arms and legs and stuff in addition to your back, she spent the entire time on my back to get all the knots, because, as she said, she doesn't like to leave a job half-done.

Then they bring you back to the lounge for a few minutes before the facial. I sometimes opt out of the facial, but I got it this time. I just don't quite get what a facial does for you. They slather some stuff on your face, wipe it off, slather, wipe, slather, wait, wipe, slather, scrub, mist, wipe... What could all that possibly be doing for your skin? But it comes with a shoulder and arm massage, so it's not unpleasant or anything.

Then we went back to the lounge for a minute before our pedicure ladies came to get us. I love the pedicure. This is only my second one, and I really think I should do it more often. They trim or file your toenails, scrub your feet and lower legs with an exfoliating scrub, sort of file off your dead skin, then paint your piggies. I chose a shiny hot pink.

Two friends had been unable to meet us for spa day, so we called them to meet us for lunch. One didn't make it, but the other did. We shall call her my doppelganger, since we are very regularly mistaken for one another at work. Anyway, I knew Monkeygirl had been to a nearby restaurant called Roxy, and I hadn't been there (it has a cowboy theme, which doesn't sound particularly vegetarian friendly). She assured me that I'd like it, and that she was sure they at least had salads. As it turned out, I really liked it! I had two delicious cocktails (a Cowboy Mary and a mango margarita) and was intrigued by the sound of another (the prickly pear margarita). We ordered the guacamole appetizer, and it was a very generous portion and the chips were fresh. I had a hard time deciding on what to have, as it was a brunch menu, so there were both breakfast and lunch choices. A couple salads and a soup (green garlic) sounded good, as did the French toast, but what really appealed to me was the farmer's market omelette. It had asparagus, button mushrooms, grape tomatoes, and jack cheese with greens on top, and it came with sourdough walnut toast (one of my favorites!) and a potato cake. I was really pleased with my meal and I'll definitely go back to try dinner, maybe soon. Oh, I almost forgot to mention that the front of the restaurant is almost all fold-away windows, so we got to eat right by a big open expanse, and the weather was perfect for it.

Then I came home and Sweetie had had such a rotten time with Zadie that he was barely speaking to me. I whisked the baby off for a nap.

When we got up, I made stir-fry for dinner, and we ate, then nursed, then got punkin' ready to go out again! There was a Pops in the Park concert at our local park (the one where we always go to the playground). I had never been to a Pops in the Park concert, so I had no idea what a big deal it was. We wouldn't have driven anyway, but if we'd wanted to, we would have practically had to park at our house! As soon as I rounded the corner onto the street leading to the park, the cars were parked bumper-to-bumper. They also filled the side streets and the junior high parking lot. We joined the crowd descending on the park, and practically the first person I saw was my neighbor. He invited me to join his wife and son at the edge of a clearing, so we parked the stroller next to them. I let Zadie down and she immediately started walking around. The poor thing -- I kept telling her "No, that's not our blanket/bottle/ball/juice box/strawberry..." Blankets were spread out covering most of the large park, and there were little pathways between them that she led me through for, oh, an hour. Every time she came across a temporarily abandoned ball, she kicked it (her kicking skills are getting stronger). She was having a great time just wandering around through all the people. Did I mention the band? No? Well, we never actually saw them. The park was so large and so crowded that we never got near the stage. We could hear the strains of "Brown Eyed Girl," "Let's Dance," "Glory Days," "Sweet Home Alabama" and other hits, and occasionally Zadie would clap, but mostly she was interested in the contents of other people's blankets. Luckily, every time I'd go "No! Stop! Don't walk across their blanket; that's not ours" the owner of the blanket in question almost uniformly said some version of "Don't worry about it, she can walk on it." People were generally very nice and in a good mood.

Our only brief negative moment was when we were walking behind a family with a dog. A kid threw a stick for the dog to fetch right over Zadie's head, so the dog turned around to run after the stick and body-slammed Zadie, completely bowling her over. She cried for a minute but I think she was more startled than hurt.

Finally we walked home and put her to bed. Then I went grocery shopping, because I have a busy day today, too. I have to go to Ikea and the Co-op before 2, when I call Mom so she can help me with my hair. I also still have two loads of laundry to fold and put away (actually, 2 1/2, since Zadie threw to the floor most of the laundry I had already folded).

I'd like to get started on my day, actually, but Z is asleep on my lap, so we'll wait.

Friday, June 05, 2009

Action


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An action shot seems appropriate for these days, as Miss Zadie is all action. She goes down the slide by herself, goes to swim class, pets the cat, drags my shoes around... She has increased her vocabulary that it's getting to the point that I really can't keep up with all her new words anymore. She says sushi, pizza, open, door, I see, I know, easy, booby*, magazine (okay, it comes out like ma-een, but she says the same thing each time and means "magazine")...

She said "Keys, door, open" several times the other day, and "open door" today. I know she still needs some articles, but damn, that's pretty much a sentence. She's really putting ideas together.

On the annoying front, she's a food thrower. She looks straight at us, takes a hunk of whatever she's supposed to be eating, and casually throws it over her shoulder. Today she threw most of her spaghetti noodles, Wednesday it was almost all of a sandwich... It frustrates the hell out of Sweetie, and we figure she's too young for the "starving children in Darfur" talk.

Hey, how am I, you ask? Pretty good! We only have four days of school left, and one week from now I'll have a bellyful of Toshi's ramen and be wrapped in the loving embrace of our Oregon family. Tomorrow I plan to have a spa day, then come home, have dinner, and take Z to a concert in the park. Sunday I need to go to Ikea and go grocery shopping. Then Mom's going to help me with my roots.

I'm looking very forward to summer, even though I'm pretty busy (in addition to two trips, I have jury duty). Right now I'm reading a great book, "The Brief, Wondrous Life of Oscar Wao." The only issue I'm having is that the author uses a LOT of Spanish, a language I happen to know very little of. I tend to recognize curse words, so I'm getting some of it, but I could use a Spanish-English dictionary while I read.

As a matter of fact, it's about time to brush my teeth and curl up with that book now.

Take care, all.
CM

*Oh yeah -- I was trying not to teach her "booby." I tried "breast." I tried "nurse." She never picked it up at all. I said "booby" exactly once, and she was like "Booby! Booby!" So booby it is. I'm looking forward to being out in public when she starts demanding booby.

Wednesday, June 03, 2009

The banquet

Every year, the honors kids throw a "banquet" (read: pot-luck) with awards for the teachers and then a dance for the kids. The awards are funny, the food is decent (a lot of home-made Asian food), and the dance is always nice.

Here's why: You might expect, having watched the news, that these kids would be sneaking in alcohol and then grinding against one another. In fact, most of the night was spent with them simply bouncing up and down. A breakdance battle ended in a hug. They did the cha-cha slide (a popular line dance). One kid danced with two leftover chickens. Another wanted to know how to ballroom dance. Two kids twirled each other around as though they were doing West Coast Swing. There were two conga lines formed. At one point, they all stood in a circle and held hands and did the wave. They're really just sweet, sweet kids.

The bad news is that I had to be away from home until well after Sweetpea's bedtime. It's so hard not to see her for 24 hours! (Before work yesterday until before work today.) I was telling mom yesterday morning, and she said "It's awful." Zadie repeated "Awful!" I mentioned that Sweetie was going to make quesadillas and Zadie said "dilla!" Apparently she also added "arm," "open," and "get" to her vocabulary yesterday. There are some words she's working on that don't come out quite right. She has a sushi play set, and I say "Oh, you have your sushi." She holds it out to me and says "ooti!" Okay, enough blathering.

(Hey, did I tell you I only have 7 days left of school, and then we get to go to Oregon?!)